Sowing Seeds of Faith: A Guide to Disciple-Making

Making Disciples: Sharing Your Faith and Fulfilling the Great Commission

By: Mighty Oaks

One of the clearest commands that Jesus gave His followers is found in Matthew 28:19: “Go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” This Great Commission calls every believer to actively share the Gospel and help others grow in their faith. But how can we share the Gospel in a way that is respectful, impactful, and avoids coming across as judgmental or too forceful?

Here are some practical tips for engaging in meaningful conversations about your faith, approaching those who may not believe, and fulfilling our call to spread the Gospel.

1: Start With Relationships

Sharing your faith doesn’t have to be intimidating when you start with what matters most—building authentic relationships. Before diving into deep spiritual conversations, get to know the person. People are much more receptive to hearing about faith from someone they trust and respect.

Tip: Be genuinely interested in people’s lives. Ask about their interests, challenges, and perspectives. Building trust opens the door to future conversations about your faith.

2: Listen First, Speak Later

One of the most important things you can do when talking about faith is to listen first. Let people share their thoughts, questions, and even doubts. Many times, people need to feel heard before they are open to hearing your perspective. James 1:19 says, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” By listening well, you show that you care more about the person than about winning an argument.

Tip: Ask thoughtful questions that encourage deeper conversation, such as “What do you believe about faith?” or “Have you ever thought about the purpose of life?”

3: Share Your Story

One of the most powerful ways to talk about your faith is by sharing your personal story. How has Jesus transformed your life? What struggles has He brought you through? When you share your own journey, you make faith relatable, not just theoretical. People are often moved by authentic testimonies of how God has worked in someone’s life. In Revelation 12:11, we read that believers “triumphed…by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” Your story has power!

Tip: Keep your testimony simple and focused. Share specific moments where you encountered God and how He has shaped your life.

4: Know the Gospel and Embrace Questions

It’s important to be ready to explain the Gospel clearly when the opportunity arises. While you don’t need to be a Bible scholar, you should have a good grasp of the core message: that Jesus died for our sins, rose again, and offers salvation to all who believe in Him (1 Corinthians 15:3-4). 1 Peter 3:15 encourages us, “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope you have.”

Tip: It’s okay to not know all the answers. Be honest with the person you’re speaking with if you encounter a question you’re unsure about, and let them know you’ll do your research to provide accurate information later. This openness shows that you’re genuine and willing to learn, which can foster trust and deeper conversations.

5: Be Patient and Trust God’s Timing

Making disciples is not a quick process. Some people may be eager to learn more about Jesus, while others may be resistant or need time to process what you’ve shared. Remember, you are not responsible for the outcome—only for being faithful in sharing. God is the one who changes hearts (John 6:44).

Tip: Pray regularly for the people you’re sharing with. Ask God to give you wisdom in your conversations and to open their hearts to the truth.

6: Live Out Your Faith

Your actions often speak louder than words. How you live your life will either draw people to Christ or push them away. Be a living example of Jesus’ love, grace, and truth in your everyday actions. As you serve others, show kindness, and reflect Christ’s character, people will be drawn to Him.

Tip: Look for opportunities to serve others selflessly, whether it’s helping a neighbor or volunteering at church. Your actions can lead to deeper conversations about faith.

7: Encourage Growth and Community

Once someone has shown interest or made a decision to follow Christ, it’s important to help them grow in their faith. Encourage them to read the Bible, pray, and join a community of believers where they can be discipled further. Growth happens best in community, where we can encourage and sharpen each other.

Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds…not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.”

Tip: Invite people to your church, small group, or Bible study to help them grow alongside other believers.

Conclusion: Who Are You Discipling? 

Making disciples is not reserved for pastors or church leaders; it’s a calling for every believer. Whether you’re having coffee with a friend or chatting with a coworker, remember that every conversation is an opportunity to reflect the love of Christ. By being intentional, patient, and prayerful, you can plant seeds of faith that may grow into a lifelong relationship with Jesus.

So, who in your life can you begin discipling today?