In a powerful episode of March or Die, Jeremy Stalnecker sits down with Adam Kasix—a trauma nurse, Army veteran, and self-proclaimed “Hope Dealer”—to discuss his incredible journey of overcoming trauma, rediscovering faith, and building a life of purpose. Adam’s story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith.
A Marine Colonel’s Words: The Catalyst for Change
Adam’s journey began with a sobering conversation. An old Marine colonel at the VA told him he’d have to live with his “demons” forever. But Adam refused to accept that fate. “I made a decision that day,” he says. “I was going to thrive with post-traumatic stress and stop calling it a disorder because I don’t have a disorder anymore.”
This pivotal moment sparked a journey of self-discovery and healing, a path marked by challenges but ultimately leading to freedom and clarity.
The Pain of Misalignment
Growing up in Detroit, Adam experienced the struggles of a turbulent upbringing. As a teenager, he vowed to create a life filled with purpose and happiness—something he didn’t see in the people around him. His time in the military and work as a trauma nurse shaped his passion for helping others but also led him to moments of profound internal conflict.
Adam described how living against his core values created destructive patterns. “I fell into addictive behaviors I didn’t understand but also didn’t like,” he admits. Recognizing this misalignment was the first step toward breaking free and reclaiming his identity.
Redefining Identity in Christ
One of the key themes in Adam’s story is the difference between finding faith and fully embracing one’s identity in Christ. “Many find healing and peace in Jesus, but few discover their true identity in Him,” Adam explains. He emphasizes that understanding this identity goes beyond salvation—it’s about alignment with purpose and values.
This perspective reshaped his life and became the cornerstone of his coaching practice, where he helps others uncover their identity in Christ and break free from destructive cycles.
The RADAR Method: A Framework for Transformation
A defining moment for Adam was creating the RADAR framework—a tool to help individuals identify misalignment and make intentional changes. RADAR stands for:
- Reflection: Recognizing patterns and behaviors that aren’t serving you.
- Awareness: Becoming conscious of the effects of your actions on yourself and others.
- Determination: Assessing the impact of these behaviors.
- Decision: Making a commitment to change.
- Adjustment and Repeat: Continuously iterating for improvement.
This framework is now a key part of Adam’s coaching practice, helping people gain clarity and reclaim control over their lives.
A Mission to Bring Hope
Adam’s story is one of redemption—not just for himself but for his family. He candidly shares how his choices nearly destroyed his marriage but how commitment to growth and faith brought restoration. “Seventeen years after she remarried me, we’re stronger than ever,” Adam says, celebrating the transformation in their relationship.
Through his coaching, speaking engagements, and the RADAR method, Adam now serves others as a guide on their own journeys to freedom. His shirt boldly proclaims “Hope Dealer,” and he lives up to the title by offering free consultations to anyone seeking a path forward.
Hope for the Hopeless
Jeremy and Adam address a stark reality in the veteran community: the despair that leads many to give up. Over 20 veterans take their lives daily, and countless others live in emotional or spiritual hopelessness. Adam offers a simple but profound challenge to those feeling stuck: “What do you want?”
He urges individuals to define their goals and take the first step, no matter how daunting it feels. “If you want it, you can get it. But you have to walk with God to go there,” Adam says.
Final Thoughts
Adam’s journey is a testament to the power of faith, self-awareness, and intentionality. His story reminds us that healing is possible, and hope is always within reach.
If you’re inspired by Adam’s message and want to explore the tools he’s developed, he invites you to connect through his website for a free consultation. Whether you’re a veteran, first responder, or someone looking for a way forward, Adam’s story proves that there’s always hope for a better tomorrow.
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