In life, we all leave a legacy—whether we realize it or not. It’s not just about fame or accolades, but about the impact we make on those around us. In a recent episode of the March or Die podcast, Jeremy Stalnecker and Sean Kennard sat down with Kevin Schroeder, a United States Marine veteran and retired police lieutenant, to discuss the profound topic of legacy. Their conversation touched on faith, family, and the importance of living intentionally.
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Understanding Legacy: It’s Not Optional
Jeremy opened the discussion by emphasizing a critical point: “Whether you want to or not, your life will leave a legacy.” Legacy isn’t just for the wealthy or the famous—it’s the sum of our daily choices, our actions, and how we treat others.
Kevin Schroeder shared his own journey, highlighting how his understanding of legacy evolved through his faith. Initially, he thought legacy was about personal achievements, but over time, he realized it’s about fulfilling God’s purpose for his life. “Obedience is required for me to align my life with the life that God created me to live,” Kevin explained, referencing Philippians 1:6.
Turning Pain into Purpose
Kevin’s story is a testament to transformation. Early in his career as a Marine and later as a police officer, he struggled with compartmentalizing his life. Work became his identity, leading to personal challenges, including infidelity and nearly ending his marriage. “I thought the only way out of this pit that I’d dug was to get a divorce,” Kevin admitted.
But his wife, Rachel, had other plans. She prayed fervently for their marriage, leaning on scripture for strength. Her prayers were answered when Kevin experienced a life-changing event during a police call that could have ended his life. This moment forced Kevin to confront the legacy he was leaving behind. “If I had died that night, what would my story have been?” he pondered.
Through faith, mentorship, and community, Kevin began the hard work of rebuilding his life and his family. His story is a powerful reminder that our past doesn’t have to define us. “You can change your legacy at any time. You just have to decide to march forward,” Jeremy added.
The Role of Accountability in Shaping Legacy
One recurring theme in their conversation was the importance of accountability. Kevin spoke about the impact of having mentors—“corner men”—who weren’t afraid to call him out and help him get back on track. “You need someone in your life who will speak the hard truths,” he said.
Sean echoed this sentiment, emphasizing how vital it is for men to have strong, honest relationships that challenge them to grow. “A lot of men don’t have that kind of accountability, and it’s one of the biggest reasons they struggle,” he noted.
Living with Intention: Building a Legacy Today
For those wondering how to start building a meaningful legacy, Kevin offered practical advice:
- Be in the Word: Regular time in scripture helps align your actions with your faith.
- Be In Prayer: Prayer offers guidance, strength, and connection to God.
- Be in Community: Surround yourself with people who will support and challenge you.
- Be In Communication with your Corner Man: Find someone who will hold you accountable.
Kevin also spoke about the importance of intentional parenting. Now a father and grandfather, he strives to pass on lessons of faith and resilience to his children and grandchildren. “Our kids watch us more than they listen to us. They need to see us living out the legacy we want for them,” he shared.
The Power of Small Steps
One of the most encouraging takeaways from the conversation was that building a legacy doesn’t happen overnight. It’s about small, consistent steps. “You don’t need to change everything today,” Kevin said. “Just start where you are. Take one step forward, and then another.”
Jeremy wrapped up the episode with the core message of the March or Die podcast: “When life gets hard, you have two choices—you can stay where you are and die, or you can march forward.” Legacy is built in those moments when we choose to keep marching.
Final Thoughts: What Will Your Legacy Be?
Legacy isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress, growth, and intentional living. Whether you’re a veteran, first responder, parent, or simply someone trying to do better, you have the power to change your story.
So, what legacy are you building today? Are you taking the small steps to ensure that the story people tell about you is one of resilience, faith, and purpose?
If this message resonated with you, consider sharing it with someone who might need encouragement. And don’t forget to subscribe to the March or Die podcast for more inspiring stories like Kevin’s.
